Efficient and Exemplary ~ Learning Postnatal Care from Ajeeta Mehta, Chennai

by on June 5, 2017

What struck me when I stood in her kitchen was her sheer efficiency—it was neat and tidy, with well-planned cupboards stocking a wide range of ingredients. She deftly placed the jars of ingredients required for the recipe on a tray and proceeded to show me how to make a postnatal broth for my daughter, who had just delivered her firstborn. As she fried the edible resin granules and added the other spices, she kept giving me valuable tips. For instance, “Don’t forget to give her tender coconut every morning. Include carom seeds and pipramool [long pepper root] in her diet. And remember to order the shatavari powder [a wild asparagus believed to promote lactation and aid female reproductive health] for her.” When the broth was ready, she poured it into a thermos and placed it neatly in a cane basket for me to take to the hospital. Thoughtfully, she added a small jar of home-made mukhvaas (mouth freshener made with carom seeds, flaxseeds, dry coconut and sesame) to the basket, saying, “Tell her to chew this between meals.”
Does it sound as if we are old friends? And yet, I had met 57 year-old Ajeeta Mehta, a Gujarati Jain from Chennai, hardly a week ago. Our mutual friend Ashish Singhi insisted I meet her when my husband told him our daughter was expecting a baby. “She is just a street away and you will never find a more friendly and helpful person,” he said. And he was absolutely right. In the next few days, my daughter and I took many important decisions based on Ajeetaji’s advice, including the food routine during postnatal care. She also introduced us to the massage lady she had employed for her grandson, fixed the salary, and even appointed her on our behalf.
Some people are like that—angels in disguise! Over the next two months, I discovered that not only was she a walking encyclopaedia on pregnancy and postnatal care but traditional Gujarati cuisine and recipes with leftovers as well. Here are some snippets of my conversation with her.

Ajeeta Mehta
I grew up in Mumbai amid my brothers and cousins; all in all, 18 boys. I was more of a tomboy, scared of nothing. I did not do much housework and never learnt sewing or cooking. But I could do anything the boys could. Even when I got married, my mother-in-law did not expect me to cook all by myself. So, unlike most other girls, I did not learn cooking from my mother or my mother-in-law. I started cooking on my own only when my husband and I shifted into our own house three years after my marriage. I coped very well. Such is life—our needs become our inspiration.

The first time my mother-in-law asked me to make kadhi, she gave me quite a large quantity of homemade buttermilk. I did not know how to prepare it. So instead of telling her, I started drinking the buttermilk [laughs]! But I did not feel nervous. I think when you grow up surrounded by brothers, it really makes you confident.

Knowledge is all around us. We have to be open to receiving it and applying the right thing at the right place. I have gained knowledge about pregnancy and postnatal foods through the people around me, books, and from my own experiences. Also, I like to know the health aspects of whatever I am cooking. I believe the more you know about these things, the more confident you become. For instance, in summer, one must soak mangoes as well as lychees in water for half an hour before consuming them. This reduces their heating quality so we can consume them easily.

Nothing ever goes waste in my house. I try and use everything, including the peel and seeds of fruits and vegetables. For instance, do not discard the peels of carrots. Simply wash and boil them, and use as stock for soups. Use the peels of ridge gourd and cucumbers as well as bitter gourds to make chutneys. While rinsing vegetables, remove them from the top rather than draining the water. This ensures that the grit stays at the bottom.

Being summer, it is aamras [mango juice]. That too, only with pairi mangoes. For 5-6 pairi mangoes, I add one alphonso. Soak the mangoes in water and then make the juice. Just add sugar and a dash of dried ginger powder to balance their dosha. There cannot be a better aamras recipe than this.

The idea of using leftover dishes is to be creative. I think real cooking cannot be learnt theoretically. One has to cook depending on ingredients, time and availability. So I make patties, parathas or muthia with leftovers depending on all these factors. But I can assure you of one thing—preparations with leftovers are as tasty as original preparations. However, we rarely have leftovers as I prefer cooking just enough for one meal.

I always say I am on a 36-hour job [laughs]! Managing a house is not a joke. But if there is harmony at home, it becomes a wonderful experience. My husband Shailesh and son Ankit pitch in with the housework. My daughter-in-law Niketa shares a wonderful rapport with me. To me, these things are a blessing. And I am happy to give my 100 per cent to whatever I undertake. In 2005, I began catering from home. My clients gave me a very warm response over the years and that was my constant encouragement. I can say that I think with my heart and work with my brain. That combination works.

The quality of relationships in life is more important than anything else—whether it is wealth or comforts. I lost my father when I was quite young but my brothers and cousins made up for the loss. Later when I got married, I found my in-laws to be truly rich emotionally. My father-in-law could never bear to see me sad even for a minute. My mother-in-law really took good care of me. I think it is because of her that I learnt to be a happy mother-in-law myself. And now, my grandson Hridaan makes my life magical with his innocent presence.
Photo Courtesy: Harmony Magazine

Part-2 of this post is the recipe of Musmusiya, steamed nuggets with multigrain flour from Ajeeta Mehta’s kitchen.
First published in ‘Heart to Hearth’ – a column in Harmony Celebrate Age magazine. A series about elders who believe in nurturing the body and mind as the key to joy.


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